[Own Your Life] September? Plan now …

Dear Difference Maker,

I’m writing you today to share a true story about how a very simple and heartfelt Acknowledgment Ceremony caused the actions of one teacher to dramatically altered the life a business man and his 14-year old son.

This short movie has been viewed millions times. I have watched this movie well over 50 times and every time I do, I still get hit in the gut with sense of urgency when I see the gun in the father’s hands, to reach more and more people. If you have already seen it, I invite you to watch it again and then reach out to whoever comes to mind who could use a word of encouragement from you.

We welcome you to use this movie and Acknowledgment Ceremony in whatever ways will be of greatest service to your community. It is our hope that this movie positively impact as many lives as possible – please turn on your speakers and “take 5” to watch:

So what do you do with this?

It is important to know that: No single therapeutic approach is suitable for all people considering suicide or suicidal tendencies. The most common ways to treat underlying illnesses associated with suicide are with medication, talk therapy or a combination of the two.

PREVENTION is about bringing transformational programs into our schools, places of work and churches that effectively build skills and much needed understanding to create a sense of community and belonging. KNOWING that we are here to Make A Difference is essential!

As you may remember, September is National Suicide Prevention Month so plan ahead now.  Be an Agent for Change with this field-tested, step-by-step program that’s already been designed to be flexible to your needs. 

 

MDPA ED

Thank you for the difference you are making.

Reaching out …
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MakeADifference.com/Education

September is National Suicide Prevention Month: A Time to Focus On Family, Friends & The Cultural Diversity Of Our Community
Written by Janice S. Ellis Ph.D.

Mental well-being is a matter of degree.

Mental health professionals will readily tell you that most of us at some point in our lives will experience some level of depression. And, few of us can totally escape stress and anxiety.

But one thing is certain: A sense of connectedness is vital to our overall well being.

Where we fit, how we fit, our relationship with our parents, spouse, sibling, cousin, neighbor, community, and city are very important variables in the equation of mental wellness at any given time.

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How do we assess our place, our sense of belonging, in the world we live in daily? The answer plays a crucial role in our physical and mental health – the quality of our lives, and in many cases the longevity of our lives.

I recently revisited a book by Dr. Edward Hallowel entitled Connect. Dr. Hallowel makes a convincing case of how our relationships with others and the communities in which we live make all the difference.

Studies have repeatedly shown that a child does better in school when he or she has a strong feeling of being connected not only to his family and the home environment but also when he or she feels a sense of belonging, relating to his or her teacher and fellow classmates.

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Studies have also shown that, often, married people live longer healthier lives – physically and mentally – than single people who live alone. The elderly are better off living in a communal setting or having pets rather than living alone in isolation.

Along with staying connected with family and friends, it is also important to know our neighbors and allow our neighbors to get to know us. It is equally important that we become “connected” with our community by getting involved in those issues that impact it even if those issues revolve around race, ethnicity or cultural diversity. While many neighborhoods have organized associations and block clubs, many more do not. Many exist in name and dues only. Many come together only when there is an issue or an occasion.

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The need to be connected and stay connected with people and causes that are important to us will become even more important as we continue to integrate the ever-emerging advances in telecommunications to “reach out and touch.”

With the options to do all of our shopping and visiting (video telephones) electronically, even worship, staying connected in a personal way will become ever more challenging.

But it is real important that we not allow the convenience of technology to broaden the gap in maintaining and nurturing the warm and caring qualities that is so needed for our physical, spiritual and emotional well-being.

We would do well to remember that staying connected is also good for society. We have only to think of the many signs of disconnectedness – homelessness, gangs, family violence, random violence, suicides – that we read about or see on the news all too often.

No technological convenience can ever replace a hug, a pat on the shoulder, a smile, sharing a meal, engaging in a vigorous debate about something for which you care deeply, taking time for a lost or confused soul.

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Perhaps one of the best ways to make technology work for us is to use the time saved to spend more time getting to know people who are important to us – our family members, our neighbors, our friends.

Virtual connectedness is not the same as the real thing.

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Reserve suicides up 23 percent — active-duty count remains steady
Military Times 5:22 p.m. EDT April 4, 2016 Patricia Kime

The number of active-duty personnel who died by suicide in 2015 declined slightly from 2014, but the reserve component, including the National Guard, saw a 23 percent increase, according to Pentagon data released Friday.

The Defense Department’s fourth-quarter suicide report for 2015 said 266 active-duty service members committed suicide in 2015,  down from 273 in 2014.

The number of Reserve component members who died by suicide — including those from the Army, Navy, Air Force and Marine Corps reserves as well as Air and Army National Guard troops — rose to 209 from a four-year low of 170 in 2014.

Figures for the active component have remained relatively steady since peaking at 321 in 2012, but they are nearly double the number before the Iraq and Afghanistan wars.
In-depth analyses of military suicides and attempts in a calendar year are issued annually by the Defense Department.  The 2014 Department of Defense Suicide Event Report, which examined the rate of suicide in the services, demographic trends including age, gender, rank and marital status, as well as known or suspected causes of suicide behavior, was released in January 2016.

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So what do you do with this?

It is also important to know that: No single therapeutic approach is suitable for all
people considering suicide or suicidal tendencies. The most common ways to treat
underlying illnesses associated with suicide are with medication, talk therapy or a
combination of the two.

PREVENTION is about bringing transformational programs into our schools, places of
work and churches that effectively build skills and much needed understanding to
create a sense of community and belonging. KNOWING that we are here to Make A Difference is essential!

MDPA ED

PLAN NOW to get this “Make A Positive Difference” Program on your In-service agenda for the very first part of this new year and you WILL see a synergizing effect over the entire workplace.

People who learn to acknowledge others will feel good about themselves. When we teach our teams “how” to safely and effectively become more authentic through learning how to genuinely acknowledge others during a week, month and/or year long experiment in human kindness… they WILL do outstanding when it comes to being able to relax and “think” when working together and doing so, synergistically. Why? Because in an emotionally calm state of mind, the LIGHT IS ON and somebody is in there doing their work… with purposeful intent!

If you haven’t already watched my newest Video Training Series for Business, I hope you will grab a cup of tea and come join me in discovering just how DO-able this program is for your place of work.

Click Here and watch the Business Video and then click the UTRAIN™ Program for Business graphic below the video.

Thank you for the difference you are making…
Mary's Signature
Co-Creator of the Acknowledgment Movie
www.MakeADifference.com/Acknowledgment

mary5_140x180Master’s in Educational Psychology Counseling and Development K-12 from the University of Nebraska; demonstrated expertise with every imaginable label awarded childhood behaviors, physical attributes and learning styles. She parlayed her phenomenal success with at-risk youth into Continuing Education Courses for Portland State University on how to be energetically effective educators. For the past two decades, she has taken her exceptional programs to educational professionals, business leaders, entrepreneurs, corporate managers and administrative assistants conducting training and consulting on how to be effective in creating improvement in their organizations through the power of Team Synergy.

[Own Your Life Wed] Lost Cause Kids??

Dear Difference Maker,

We have all encountered distressed students and adults who exhibit intense emotional reactions and behaviors.

Lost Cause Kid is a movie for educational professionals and parents who live and/or work with emotionally distressed youth. 

This true story also holds the “key” to life’s most challenging relationship issues.  The Key to positively impacting an emotionally intense situation is: stop judging and start connecting in ways that are deliberately understanding and compassionate.  We’re making this far more difficult than it needs to be.

Our short 10 min. movie is all about doing (and thinking) something simple (and different) in the face of chronic emotionally intense, disruptive situations and behaviors. What works with kids also works with people of all ages as well.

I hope you will grab a cup of coffee, turn up your speakers and make time to watch it. 

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Click here to watch.

We welcome you to forward this on to those who will benefit from the simple, immediately applicable concepts it so beautifully, and peacefully illustrates. 

Reaching out …

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Mary Robinson Reynolds
MakeADifference.com/Education

FIRST 9 Weeks after Summer Vacation!
Excerpt from 9-Week Make A Difference School Curriculum

back_schoolDid you know that you just need … 9 Weeks to achieve a high level of productivity and an exponential impact ‘Make A Difference’ Year!   Seem too good to be true?

Why nine weeks?

As a teacher, I felt the first nine-weeks of every school year set the stage for the entire year. I knew – down to my toes – that if my students’ social and emotional needs were met within the walls of my classroom, it would extend out and they would be highly functional for the rest of the school year. Life for the entire school year would be very, very good.

It just takes nine!

Through teaching children, educators, and parents how to build a compassionate community, we dramatically raised emotional intelligence – EQ – and therefore academic performance.

Because of building a safe, synergistic community in the classroom FIRST, my students averaged 2.5 to 3 years of academic growth each year, and I had approximately 55%-60% at-risk youth population.

How did I do this?

My goal was simple. I placed the children’s social and emotional needs above my concern about making it through “X number of pages” per week.

First Things First.

In the first 9 weeks of the school year, every – and I do mean “every” – single time a social or emotional situation played out in the classroom, lunchroom or play ground, we had an open discussion – no matter how long it took.

Take it exactly as it comes. Don’t avoid, dismiss or ignore what’s in front of you to take care of right there, right then. The payoff in nine weeks will be huge.

Start with The Fundamentals:  COMMUNITY BASED LEARNING

With the pressure to get kids to score high on achievement tests today, you simply must deal with the emotional and social issues first. Everything after that becomes the foundation for everything you could ever want the educational experience to be.

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Here’s your School OPENER – WEEK 1


WEEK 2

WEEK 3 of my 9-Week Make A Difference School Curriculum so you can see just how DOABLE this is!

You can DO THIS … teaching is incredibly rewarding when students are actively learning and directly involved in each other’s well being.

 Click here to invest in the 9-Week Curriculum Educator’s Package with special 2 hour training with Mary as she walks you through step-by-step HOW to create COMMUNITY in your classroom within the first 9 weeks of THIS School Year so your students academic scores excel.

SPECIAL PRICING FOR TEACHERS who want to make GREAT things happen in their classrooms! ORDER NOW to assure on time arrival.

4 MOVIES come with Educator Package Teddy Stallard Story Movie – Acknowledgment Movie – Lost Cause Kid Movie & Connection Movie comes with Make A Difference with the Power of Connection Gift Book

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